Routines.. or lack of

My baby is 3.5 months old and we still have no routine and it’s starting to really affect me - going out to meet friends or to baby classes is so stressful as I don’t know when his naps are going to be.
I’ve tried getting up at the same time everyday but his morning nap still never happens at the same time.
He always seems to be wide awake at the end of 90 minute wake windows so perhaps he needs longer wake windows? Day time naps are just stressful anyway as he’s so hard to get to sleep, we usually resort in carrier naps or contact naps after breast feeding.
How did you all start a routine, if you have one?

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