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Hi, I’m a FTM to a 4 week old baby boy. I’m concerned about my baby during evening feeds. In the morning and afternoon he usually only needs 1–2 burps, but in the evening he gets trapped burps after almost every 2–3 sips. He starts gulping the milk quickly, arches his back, breathes fast, cries, and won’t continue feeding until the burp comes out. Milk also leaks from the corners of his mouth while he’s drinking and once he burps, he settles and starts feeding again, but the same thing keeps happening throughout the feed for about 8-10 times in one feed. Does anyone know what might be causing this or has anyone experienced something similar?
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I am so embarrassed to be admitting all of this but I know I am not the only one that's ever gone through this...
Let's start from the beginning... my doctor was born and wouldn't latch. They would put her on my breast, and she would instantly fall asleep. She would never suck. She didn't want to take a bottle.She didn't want to take breast, so she did not eat for the first roughly 36 hours of life. The nurses and doctors made me feel so inadequate and made me feel like I wasn't doing a good job as a mom. In the middle of the night, my started crying, and we begged for formula and she took it instantly my goal was to have her get on the formula, then switch her over to breast. Unfortunately, she's only truly latched, maybe 3 times total. She is now 7 weeks old. I was pumping but not consistently. I have older kiddos at home and I got PPD and PPA and then I became completely discouraged with her not wanting to latch. Then I lost the feeling of being full... so I would tend to forget to pump as the sensation wasn't there. Then, I would hand pump, and I would only get about half an ounce between both breasts. I talked to a peer counselor for breastfeeding, and she encouraged me to get back on a schedule to pump. I wasn't consistent enough previously. Now, i'm only getting a couple drops out of each breast. Not even enough to do anything with.
So with all of that being said, my question is if I continue to pump, will I ever get my milk supply back?? I have been pumping throughout the day as well as power pumping once a day...
Worried mum 4 month Baby
My baby girl hasn't had a poo for the past 18 days. I've taken her to the GP and they've assessed her thoroughly. They said she's perfectly fine, felt her tummy not hard or anything, and prescribed lactulose, which I've been giving her, but she still hasn't had a poo.
She's feeding really well, has plenty of wet nappies, seems happy, and otherwise looks absolutely fine. The doctor has told me to just keep giving the lactulose because they can't find anything wrong with her.
I also mentioned it to my sister inlaw, and she said it can be normal because sometimes babies use all of the milk they drink, so there's very little waste. That did reassure me a little, but I'm still worried!!!
Every day I keep thinking something might be wrong, even though she seems completely fine. Her farts smell really strong, but she still doesn't poo.
Has anyone else's baby gone this long without a poo? If so, what happened? I'd really appreciate hearing your experiences because I'm feeling quite anxious.