Partner doesn’t drive – any advice?

I’m due in November with my first baby, and we live around 35 minutes from the hospital. My partner doesn’t drive, and him passing before the baby arrives isn’t an option, so I’m just wondering if anyone else has been in the same situation? How did you manage getting to the hospital when you went into labour, and do you have any tips or advice? 🤍

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Is there anyone else in the family or friends who can take you? With my first my mum was on call and she dropped us both at the hospital so my husband didnt have to worry about parking. If it's your first, you'll probably have enough time to get a taxi there if not. Have your hospital bag ready & next to the door x

Neither me or my partner drive and we've got 2 daughters. A 2 year old and a 7 month old. We just got a taxi when we brought them home both times. First babies like to keep you waiting so I wouldn't panic too much

I can't comment on going into labour because I was induced both times because both of the pregnancies had a lot complications. Have you got any family or friends that live close to you that could take you if you do go into labour? At the absolute worst, you'd have to call 999 and get an ambulance

We had the same issue. Used a local taxi firm and they were fantastic. We spoke to them near the time and they were very happy to help.

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