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Bedtime

What time are our babies going to bed? Mine will be 9 weeks old on Monday so curious as to what time people are putting theirs to bed and when they might wake in the night?

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About 9pm. She is asleep by around 9:30. She then wakes around 4 and then about 7 for feeds x

It varies day to day. Anything from 8 to 10.30. we just go with the flow. Last night hubby put him to bed whilst I was out at 7.30. his last feed was before I went out at 5.45 and I got home at 8.30. I gave him a feed when I got home which took some encouragement lol and he went back to sleep. I gave him a bun change and dream feed at 10 and again he went back to sleep. He woke at 2.30 for a feed and then 6.30 for the day.

Other days though he's done 8-6, back to sleep till 9. Or 10-5, back to sleep till 8... Every day is a surprise 🤣 xx

My 8 week old has usually been between 8-9pm but we’ve noticed she starts getting really grizzly around 6:30pm so tonight I’m trying her down at 7-7:30.. she doesn’t nap in the day so is really overtired

Around 10.30ish and then she sleeps 10h with no wakes x

About 10:30pm and usually sleep until 4 or 5 with no wakes

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