Marriage falling apart

I cannot share this with family or friends but i feel sincw the baby i feel our once happy marriage is falling apart. We both are falling out of love. I feel he is doing enough and he feels no matter what he does i find faults and taunt him. I feel immensely lonely since im new here and have no other family or friends. I get bad thoughts but slide them askde cause of my child. I just feel nobody gets me anymore and am alone in all this. Managing my kod in the room everyday and thats my life. No romance no nothing. I dont know what to do.

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Save my marriage plus a newborn

My baby is 5 weeks old and me and my husband are in the worst place weve ever been in our marriage. I used to feel like we were soul mates, he was my best friend but now we keep having arguments over petty things, when I try to communicate with him, he doesn't listen and storms off but then I cry and he shouts, swears and name calls if I try to stand up for myself. I've been diagnosed with postnatal depression too and am under the perinatal mental health team, they suggested some medication but my husband says hes "disappointed" that im considering medicstion. Any tips on how to save my marriage with a new born?

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Early riser

My daughter will be 8 weeks old in two days, the last few nights she’s been waking for a feed around 5-6am, then is completely wide awake afterwards and will not go back to sleep. She’s also started making grunting noises even if she seems completely happy, so I can’t get back to sleep either as she’s so loud. Any tips on how to get this wake time slightly later? She’s currently feeding around every two hours (formula fed). Thanks!🥰

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Co sleeping!

Need any advice on co-sleeping. I do not need judge ment or know it alls. I know in America it’s taboo but I need sleep yall. Newborn, only a week and a half old but I know for sure sleeping with him helps regulate and comfort him. I regret not doing it with my daughter. Still a nervous wreck about it tho. It’s been impossible to learn safe co-sleeping living in a country where it’s so frowned upon.

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Help with milk please

Hi, does anyone have any spare tins of SMA alfamino milk that is no longer needed please local pharmacy’s are struggling to get it and my baby is down to his last tin and has a severe milk allergy and this is the only one that settles him 😕🩵Thankyou! xx

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Feeding

How long will your baby sleep without a feed/how long are you comfortable them going?

My little boy is starting to do longer stretches of sleep and I find myself panicking if I should be waking him for a feed still at his age or just let him wake when he’s ready?!

He’s 8 weeks old and never lost weight and has been gaining well (but had been feeding at least every 4 hours, but now starting to go beyond this overnight every so often)

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