Hi everyone 🙈😊 A random (and slightly shy! 😂) toddler question…
I'm teaching my 18-month-old daughter the names of her body parts (eyes, ears, nose, tummy, etc.), and she's recently started touching her private area every time I change her nappy. I know it's probably just normal curiosity ❤️.
It got me wondering… what do you call that area with your little girls? Do you use the proper anatomical name (vulva) or a nickname? I'm still getting used to what's most common culturally here in the UK, so I'd love to hear what everyone does. 🥰
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I feel like boys have this easier😅as "willy" doesn't sound too grown up but you definitely know what they're talking about if they say that word.
But I find "vagina" and "vulva" so grown up for their age.
We currently call it a mini-moo. Just because she put me on the spot one day and I panicked and it kinda stuck- i think it might have been what i called mine as a child 😅 following for suggestions. I also think the V sound is hard for them to make.

18 month old girl here. We use correct names. I’ve worked in safeguarding children for far too long to not use the correct names.
They’re just body parts, the same as the arm, leg or finger.
Anatomically correct names ensure that if a safeguarding issue were to arise, your child is taken seriously from the start. Cutesy names do not. An abused child saying their uncle was playing with their flower or button (for example) would not raise alarm bells with anyone outside of the family/close friends. An abused child saying their uncle was playing with their vulva would.

When working in a nursery we were told to use the correct names too but i just call it her wee wees at the moment😅