Cheating husband

Found messages on my husbands phone of him dming multiple women towards the end of my pregnancy and even just 2 days after I gave birth to our second child. Honestly, it’s put me off him and I feel sick. Nothing can justify this scummy behaviour! So whilst I was birthing OUR child and going through all the changes he was just trying to get his leg over???? I confronted him and he said- we were in a bad place and you had said you wanted a divorce. LOL, the gaslighting is unreal! Because now he doesn’t want to give me a divorce. Little cunt

in our community

Do you think it's gross?

Do you think it's gross for a woman to swim at public pool on her period even if she is wearing tampons?

How to make money elsewhere?

OK so I currently work a 9-5. Making £4495.70 monthly. By time tax, student loan, NI come out all I get is £3060.

I ddont see myself being in this job forever as its mentally taxing and honestly the pay in my opinion is not great. Work is stressful and doesntly allow me to be a happy version of myself.

I am trying to think of other ways to earn money. I like the idea of working for myself.

Can you recommend ideas?

How long do you recommend staying in a job that you don't enjoy.

Childcare funding

Please can someone help me on when is the best date to put down to return to work to make sure I don’t mess the funding up.

LO is due to start nursery at the start of September, I was due back middle of October but having to end early for his funded childcare to be eligible for that term( will be 10 months old when starting).

I know I have to return to work within the 31 days of him starting the term,

When is the best date to do this to make sure I don’t mess up the funding?

Would the 30th September be fine to do or is a few days prior best practice?

Sorry if this doesn’t make sense

Stay at home

Does anyone know of any stay at home jobs that dont require experience and being licensed? My fiance wants to stay home with the our daughter and I, but we cant find any remote jobs. Any and all advice would be appreciated

Selling prams!!

Where's everyone found they had the most success selling a travel system? I've not had any interest and need my old one gone as I have no room to store it😩 it's listed everywhere I can think and I've reduced the price of it!!

I thought I found a bestie!

Everytime I find a bestie it seems to go good for the first few days or week than it goes south. We exchange numbers and text, it does go really well and start planning to talk onthe phone and then try to meet up.

It does go further and I guess I maybe bi-curious but I have never done anything or sent many pictures and they seem to get upset or stop talking to me. I dont mind doing that stuff but Im shy and I have lost a ton of weight and Im waiting on my visit to the plastic surgeon at the beginning of the fall so Im not completely comfortable with my body yet.
Does anyone have any advice or come across the same scenario. Maybe I. just too old..Who knows. I am in my 40s, married with 2 kids and I think Im pretty cute so whats the deal...lol