Is this gay???

I think its his business and not everything needs a label.

I mean I've slept with women in the past and guess what? I'm straight. Turns out I just like being told what to do by a guy 🤣 It took me experimenting a bit to figure it out. Sexuality is fluid, but also homophobia, internalized or not, is very real and shouldn't be discounted in how he may feel about it. Sounds like you need a healthy, judgement-free conversation where you aren't trying to "win" or have him say you're right. Even if you don't agree on the semantics, the more important thing here seems to be that he may be cheating and thinking "with the bros" doesn't count? (Which is homophobic as well.) Hope y'all are able to figure it out. I would hope him being bi wouldn't even be a reason for you to consider dumping him though.

That would be a deal breaker for me because it sounds like he is cheating on you...bicurious or whatever shouldn't even be a factor here. He is in a RELATIONSHIP and doing stuff with other people... THAT IS CHEATING!! THE LABEL YOU SHOULD GUVE HIM IS CHEATER!!!

Lol it’s like most men who are into trans but say “im 100% straight”. Yeah ok.

Bisexual

Obviously not straight

Sexuality and romantic interest are separate things. But that doesn't excuse cheating.

I don't think a label is something we can really give others that's something they choose for themselves, sometimes people experiment until they figure out what they like. If you guys are in a relationship I would definitely leave if that's been done while you're dating, because that's cheating. If you're just having sex, again, I would stop if that wasn't disclosed because that's not cool.

Giving him a label isn’t necessary. You either dig it or you don’t 🤷‍♀️ if not move on and be clear moving forward that’s a deal breaker for you.

Whether he wants a label or doesn’t want a label, people who do use labels would say is he’s bi

Not sure why this is a debate lol. If your issue is him having sex with another man or anyone else for that matter, leave. Doesn’t matter if he’s gay, bi, curious or whatever at that point.

I am sorry for what you went through. He needs to figure out what he wants and stop messing around with you.
Sounds like he might be curious, have a chat with him if you really like him and want something serious with him .