Baby daddy

My baby daddy called me today telling me he doesn’t want to try to work things out with me for the sake of the baby (I’m 34 weeks pregnant) and he said he won’t do the paternity test we’ve been talking about after he’s tortured me my whole pregnancy saying his child “isn’t his” after HE CHEATED ON ME, and he said he won’t even drive over here to meet his son in person or come to the hospital. My whole pregnancy he’d claim he wants me and the next day it’d be something different. Do you think he will come back once baby’s born?

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Condoms - Is he lying??

My husband is a baby about wearing condoms. He literally refuses because apparently they’re so tight it restricts the blood flow and then he cant feel anything. I asked if he needs a Magnum instead and he said yes probably.
Like yeah his penis is kinda girthy but I wouldn’t say it’s that huge?? Is he lying or has anyone else’s man said something similar.

Be honest, when do you see a trans person as the gender they're transitioning to? [When do you see a trans woman as a woman? When do you see a trans man as a man?]

I don't mean when you start respecting them as that gender, I mean when your brain sees them and automatically thinks of them as that gender.

Be kind, I will report anything hateful, I am simply curious.

Second guessing.

I feel awful writing this but I need to get it out of my brain instead of it festering.

Im currently just over 9 weeks pregnant and im having the overwhelming feeling Im making a huge mistake. Im second guessing my relationship aswell as I can't stand my partner at the moment. Im finding him self centred and I dont think he realises how hard im finding this pregnancy especially as im high risk. Our communication is completely missed he thinks im snapping when im not so then we end up having an argument. He works 10 hour days and pisses me off because he seems to think I should be on top of the house work and have a meal on the table!

Im very perplexed at the minute.

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This is a long one so bear with me….

Can anyone else relate to this or is it just me I actually don’t have anyone I go to baby groups put myself out there and get nothing.
I don’t really have anyone at all friends wise I spend most of my time on my own with my children I can’t even meet up with any other mums and do fun things.
I have tried everything groups local social media groups and nothing I did a PANDAS course recently as I suffered badly with postnatal depression after my second baby was born I had a really traumatic time and now it’s just hit me so much again especially with 6 weeks for my oldest being stuck at home no routine.
I try and get out on my own but there is only so much of my own company I can do I have thought about going on tablets but I just can’t bring myself to do it if I am honest I wanted to try the therapy which works for a while and then that’s it.
I just want some kind advice I have tried everything to put myself out there I even bumped into a mum at a supermarket arrange a coffee meet up I messaged her and was ghosted she was really up for it’s been 2 months and I got nothing back.
I have exhausted everything and I don’t know what to do I just want a mum who understands.
Also my family aren’t understanding I have a brother who don’t speak to me for some reason I haven’t done anything wrong btw and my in laws and husbands siblings aren’t that great 😭

The stigma of all men cheat…

Ladies do you believe all men cheat?