Wanted to run something by you
I just ended my marriage of 11 years my husband come fast that two months ago he was unfaithful to me with someone from his past, not just that, but he also confessed to me that he fell in love with someone, not the same person that he cheated with, but another person whom he had been keeping close to hoping that she will give him the time of day for some contacts two years ago my husband abandoned us, me and my daughter, basically to move to Atlanta and look for a better life for us and that we were to join him. My daughter is level three on the spectrum and I have been dealing with everything by myself finances emotional stress appointments, therapies school everything I haven’t received one dime from him in the past two years my question is I wrote a letter to the other woman because I do have her contact info and I wanted to know what I’d be wrong to send her a letter the letter that I’m sending is not a hatred letter is not a scorned woman letter. It’s a letter warning her on who he really is since he has the fame of meeting new women and creating new personalities and characters and portraying solve as a charming, perfect man honestly speaking, I’m not afraid of looking like an idiot what I am afraid of is what will come after that letter and if it will be received the way I’m expecting it to so would I be wrong to send a letter?
pretty specific poll... moms who had their first baby in their early 20's!!
My baby is just 8mo, and I absolutely ADORE her, I think she came to my life at the perfect time, even tho she wasn't planned. I love being a mommy, even tho I lost most of my friends (if you can call them that lol). I used to be THE party girl, smoked weed and tobacco and drank a lot, and my lifestyle obviously completely changed.
Until today, I hadn't missed going out, but suddenly missed the feeling of it, the uncertainty of what would happen, the euphoria and happiness of being drunk and dancing. I felt guilty even writing this. Again, I wouldn't change a single thing of my life, but was just wondering if you ever go out again... I thought about it and can't figure when will my baby sleep through the night (we are quite far from that yet), when will I be able to go out again... my BD still goes out every weekend, and until today I didn't care now I'm a bit jealous.
I know time flies, this past 8 months have gone so fast! So I'm enjoying every moment of my baby! But can't help but wonder...
No judgment please! Feel free to share experiences or opinions!
