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I just ended my marriage of 11 years my husband come fast that two months ago he was unfaithful to me with someone from his past, not just that, but he also confessed to me that he fell in love with someone, not the same person that he cheated with, but another person whom he had been keeping close to hoping that she will give him the time of day for some contacts two years ago my husband abandoned us, me and my daughter, basically to move to Atlanta and look for a better life for us and that we were to join him. My daughter is level three on the spectrum and I have been dealing with everything by myself finances emotional stress appointments, therapies school everything I haven’t received one dime from him in the past two years my question is I wrote a letter to the other woman because I do have her contact info and I wanted to know what I’d be wrong to send her a letter the letter that I’m sending is not a hatred letter is not a scorned woman letter. It’s a letter warning her on who he really is since he has the fame of meeting new women and creating new personalities and characters and portraying solve as a charming, perfect man honestly speaking, I’m not afraid of looking like an idiot what I am afraid of is what will come after that letter and if it will be received the way I’m expecting it to so would I be wrong to send a letter?

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Question, is there a reason you aren’t getting child support from him?

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If a woman has decided to involve herself with a married man she's already accepted a certain level of scumminess thinking she's better than you for making him 'stick'. At best she might take you at your word and understand your intentions, at worst you've played right into his negative portrayal of you in front of this lady and made her decide he was right and go in farther. Not that either is your problem at all. The best thing I could advise is to write your letter out and burn it for a cathartic experience. Leave and go in peace, rebuild your life and don't be bothered by that burden any longer. Don't let him believe he matters enough to you to put effort into acting any way but indifferent to his choices. Good luck with this reset, I hope you and your daughter can thrive and find peace without that extra stress in your life 🙏🏼💜

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I just ended my marriage of 11 years my husband come fast that two months ago he was unfaithful to me with someone from his past, not just that, but he also confessed to me that he fell in love with someone, not the same person that he cheated with, but another person whom he had been keeping close to hoping that she will give him the time of day for some contacts two years ago my husband abandoned us, me and my daughter, basically to move to Atlanta and look for a better life for us and that we were to join him. My daughter is level three on the spectrum and I have been dealing with everything by myself finances emotional stress appointments, therapies school everything I haven’t received one dime from him in the past two years my question is I wrote a letter to the other woman because I do have her contact info and I wanted to know what I’d be wrong to send her a letter the letter that I’m sending is not a hatred letter is not a scorned woman letter. It’s a letter warning her on who he really is since he has the fame of meeting new women and creating new personalities and characters and portraying solve as a charming, perfect man honestly speaking, I’m not afraid of looking like an idiot what I am afraid of is what will come after that letter and if it will be received the way I’m expecting it to so would I be wrong to send a letter?

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