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First time mums

Is it over?

So I’m 10 weeks post partum and well aware I have hormones all over the place (and a toddler too) however….
I am hugely disappointed with my fiancé rn. He has been so self indulged. He has not taken care of me my whole pregnancy in fact quite the opposite. Every day he cooks himself dinner for his fitness journey and uses every utensil and pot and pan etc then I have to wash it up. (Always at the time when I need to be cooking dinner) He never ever cooks for me or our toddler. He constantly talks about sex and says I should just have sex with him even when I don’t want to because he is a man and he needs it (and the thought of being intimate with him atm is not it) we are not connected in anyway and he keeps telling me things like ‘I’m not his peace’ or that he looks at females on insta and thinks of them sexually and that he doesn’t look at me like that anymore. He watches all these stupid podcasts about men comparing themselves to women in a negative light and wants to debate all the time. I’m just trying to get through the day 😄😩 on his paternity leave he slept downstairs so he could be “well rested” for when he goes back to work??? Am I going insane or is this man just not loving on me?