Advice Please šŸ™

My planned section is a week today!

Now leading up to this my anxiety has been hell on earth. My first was a planned and was amazing. So I’m having another planned but worried I go early and don’t get my section. I’ve a lot of health anxiety struggles from my past and had a miscarriage before.

Question - how on earth do I get from now until next Friday without over analysing every single symptom because it feels like a lifetime away.

Excited but so unbelievably nervous, and every sensation in my body I think is this it am I in labour? 🫣🫣🫣 just want him here safely.

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Even if you went into labour you can still have a c section. I went into labour with my first and still maintained that I wanted a c section and they granted my wish.

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Remember what you have achieved so far and how well you are doing. Try and do the things that make happy and remember to be kind to yourself. You’re doing amazing

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Thanks ladies šŸ™


I think I’m worried I’m not priority and forced to give birth naturally. As I mentioned before I’ve had a c section before which was planned. Or I’m worried I turn up and there’s no space for me.

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