I need some help. My BD doesn't see why I insist on our 4 year attending a birthday party of her friend with a present. I refused to let her show up to a party without a present it just feels wrong. Am I wrong? I offered to pay him back for it because I don't get paid until the first and he's being all huffy about it. I just can't bring myself to show up without something for her friend.
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We usually get something small (like $20), and then make a personal card. It doesnt matter to us if people bring gifts or not (we always request cards, or homemade artwork) and say no gifts.

I don't think you HAVE to. Like...I wouldn't mind if people came to my child's party without a gift. But I feel the same as you. I would definitely buy one if I was going to one. Only something really small though x