Contraceptive patch

Anyone using the patch? I've just started using it and I put it on my upper arm but realised it's not a good spot for it. Where have you put yours? I don't know what spot on the body is the best for it

in our community

"Would you judge.." posts

There are people who always flood the comments like "oh no I would never judge! Youre so terrible for judging" for literally anything and everything, even stupid things. You could say "do you judge people who eat pineapple on pizza?" and a whole group of people will comment like "oh my god you dont know if that person has allergies, maybe theyre on a pineapple-only diet, maybe they mama was a pineapple, stop judging."
Are you telling me you don't even think to yourself?? Like judging inwardly without vocalising?? Or are you a complete saint? not for a second thinking "oof what the fuck is you doing" about someone else?

My baby daddy wants to get back together..

For some background, my baby’s sperm donor is 34 with 5 other kids (3 baby mommas). I’m 22 and the 4th baby momma and my son is his 6th kid. He’s never been a present father in his other kids lives. He was a very toxic and controlling person in the relationship. He started telling me who I could and couldn’t talk to early into the relationship. When he got angry lots of harsh things would be said and if he was mad enough objects would be thrown or hit. I had finally built up the courage to leave before I found out I was pregnant and got back together to try and work it out for the baby. But about 4 months into the pregnancy nothing had changed and it got worse, he even told me he didn’t want his son around a woman who wanted all that freedom… I got away again by turning him into the sheriffs department, as he had an active warrant for his arrest for not paying child support for this other kids. He’s been writing me from jail wanting to fix things and prove he can be a good father. But I just don’t believe it, in 16 years he was never a father to any of his other kids. What makes mine different. Am I in the wrong for not even wanting him in my son’s life? I personally believe inconsistency and his behavior/attitude towards me is worse than him just not being an active part of our lives.

I feel so depressed and alone.

I don’t know what’s going on but genuinely the start of my pregnancy was really good then second trimester came in was good but depression started coming down like a brick. Now in the third trimester with 8 weeks left i feel utterly depressed and alone. Not feeling supported by my partner either which i guess is playing a factor i just feel so low within myself i don’t like being awake i just want to sleep all the time so i dont feel these feelings.

Sex question

I’m 36 weeks pregnant and whenever I orgasm my head severely hurts it just recently started I don’t know if that’s something normal I never used to experience it before is it something to be concerned about?

Dinner

Smoked greens with Turkey neck , yams , corn bread and lollipop chicken y’all I’m so greatful I was able to eat amen 🙏🏽

Kids birthday presents

I need some help. My BD doesn't see why I insist on our 4 year attending a birthday party of her friend with a present. I refused to let her show up to a party without a present it just feels wrong. Am I wrong? I offered to pay him back for it because I don't get paid until the first and he's being all huffy about it. I just can't bring myself to show up without something for her friend.