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Stay At Home Mamas 🤍

Oversharer

Anyone an oversharer and you don’t even realise you’re doing it? Was talking to my partner today and she made me feel so insignificantly small and I just feel so shut down. I don’t have friends, but recently have met these girls online and have become quite close with them so know a lot about them and vice versa.

And I’m not really sure how I got onto this topic but I was yapping to my partner and I kinda casually mentioned something about my friends job yadda yadda and she just looks at me and says ‘that’s great and all but let’s just talk about my interview for a job role next week’ and while we move onto it she kinda just says ‘Y’know you talk a lot and I’m burnt out now from all that talking about your friend so I’m just gonna remove myself from the room and do something else’. We kinda got into a big argument and now she’s in the next room on ft to her friend. I know I talk a lot and sometimes don’t even really notice I’m doing it but I’d rather someone tell me to my face that I’m boring them rather than telling me I burn them out with the amount I talk. I’ve had it my whole life and now to know my partners not even interested in half the shit I say.

Sometimes she bores me with topics too but I’ve never told her to her face I’m done with the convo, i entertain it because there’s nothing wrong with a bit of conversation. Maybe I’m overreacting but it’s put me in a position now where I feel like I’m not bothered to chat to her about my friends or my interests. And she always does this, if we argue she’ll say it’s because someone else stressed me out (kids, family, friends etc) but sometimes I’m not even focused on other people to warrant stress.