Just need to vent

Hey mamas! So I have a very strained relationship with my baby daddy. Its been super toxic and abusive to say the least but I think this kind of takes the cake. Im currently 33 weeks pregnant and this morning I walked out to find all 4 of my tires slashed. I have not worked in years because he has been the sole provider, he knows I have zero dollars to my name and we have a ton of stuff still left to get baby girl too. Im just kind of at a loss for words. I knew he was spiraling but I never thought he would take it this far. Its one thing to punish me its another to now put me in a position where I appear to be unfit for my unborn daughter. Thats just beyond repulsive in my book and ofcourse I cant prove it was him and my deductible to cover it is 2k. I have an entire village that will come together and help me but thats not the point. Now mentally I get to suffer because im going to sit here and not only get a restraining order hes now not going to be in her life until a judge decides otherwise and its going to completely eat me up inside and hes not going to think a single thing about it.

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Looking for mums to be good friends with! I’m happy to be friends with people who are across the globe! I believe friendships online can be just a genuine as irl.

I’m dog crazy, usually a gamer, a bookworm and getting back into my fitness. I have 2 dogs, a cat, a step son and a 9 week old little dude.

I love long forest dog walks, paddle boarding, quality time with my family and coffee.

Oh I also swear like a sailor so please don’t take offence to it🫣😆

I think

I think the world would be a better place if it was run by women! I'm honestly sick and tired of these men.

I would love to see this in my lifetime but sadly don't think I will

How many boxes do you check off ?

[ ] Married/partnered up
[ ] Lives in DMV area
[ ] One/Two kids
[ ] In your 30’s
[ ] Likes the color green
[ ] Enjoys self-improvement things
[ ] Enjoys exploring new places
[ ] Enjoys reading
[ ] Enjoys movie nights/girls night/game nights
[ ] Enjoys double dates
[ ] Enjoys talking on the phone/voice chat
[ ] Likes movies/shows/game shows
[ ] Loves gospel/r&b/soca music
[ ] Not a night person
[ ] Likes to exercise
[ ] On a faith walk
[ ] Takes initiative
[ ] Know how to hold a conversation
[ ] Doesn’t mind driving

Update, 3 years later

So this post went off the rails a bit in the comments, but I have an update on the original situation (TL;DR: new neighbours with kid the same age didn’t seem interested in a friendship. I was disappointed).

We are now friends! The kids naturally connected by running into each other outside and now we hang out regularly. The husband is still awkward and a bit standoffish, but the wife and I are developing a genuine friendship.

Good morning, everyone! 👋

Hope you're all having a lovely start to your day. Just wanted to pop in and say that sometimes, making new friends as a mom can feel a bit like trying to find a matching sock in a pile of laundry – tricky but totally worth it when you find the right one! If you're feeling a bit isolated or just looking to connect with some amazing moms, don't be shy! Reach out, comment on a post, or suggest a virtual coffee date. We're all in this together, and a strong mom tribe makes everything a little bit easier (and a lot more fun!). Let's make some connections today! 😊

I’m sad lol

It’s my birthday today. I’m 23
I’ve not had one message
I have a few “friends “ form my kids school and one friend from outside who is atleast expect to message me , we talk a lot on text. and non of them have evwn replied to my texts today 🫠 the only family I have are my kids and I’m obviously not upset at my 4&2 year old for it they don’t when know 🤣but just feeling extra lonely today I guess