Looking for the real, raw advice/ hacks that has worked for you as a mom of 2 under 2

Hey guys I just welcomed a beautiful babygirl December ‘25 and expecting a baby boy in December ‘26. Was it planned? Absolutely not. Is it happening? Absolutely. I’m not new to motherhood as I have an 8 year old daughter but I am new to have multiple children and learning to be there for all parties and myself as well. I am also looking for advice on how to juggle two under two, any hacks that worked for you, advice on what helped you and your marriage/partner navigate through this chapter of life.
Thank you guys in advance 🫶🏼🫶🏼

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