I have a 3 year old and a newborn and over the smallest argument my boyfriend left . Tell me I can do this and raise them right.
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Learn more about our guidelines.And by left I mean he’s headed back to his home state and told me good luck and all!

Are you sure it wasn’t just out of anger, like saying something he didn’t mean in the moment? If you don’t mind me asking what was the argument about roughly

You can do this love!

Im sorry this is happening to you, I truly hope he just needed to cool down and get some space. Men don’t regulate their emotions like woman do, they tend to run away from the noise. Give him time to cool down tonight, and message him in the morning explaining his role is important to your children, and if you guys could please possibly give it one more try. Try not to stress out tonight on over thinking this, what’s meant to be will be. I know this sounds easier said than done, but maybe put a Disney movie on and relax with your babies just for tonight and see where everything is tomorrow. Again, so sorry this is happening to you, but god never give us what we can’t handle. Pray on it!🫶🏽