I feel so judged by friends is everything why you can hangout your don’t have time anymore …. Mmm hello I have a baby now
I can’t I give more explanation I feel they I just wanna be by myself because now I don’t have any time alone , I wanna relax I wake up everyday a 5 am 🕔 I sleep if a get luck 4 hours … and today my baby decided not sleeping I am exhausted is like the whole routine is gone what I doing wrong ….
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You’re not doing anything wrong!
You’re in a new season of life and you’ll meet more people in your situation as you go on. Mom friends will totally get it.
Also as far as a schedule goes, I’m not sure how old your baby is, but mine doesn’t do a schedule. We try to go to bed at 8-9 so my husband and I can get some time together and it works out maybe once a month.
One thing I saw that helped me was someone that said they won’t remember the messy house, how crazy your hair was, or the bags under your eyes. They’ll always remember that you were there for them.
Great job in making your house a home for your baby and I hope you get the opportunity to make great friends along your journey 🥰

I felt that completely…I’ve lost a lot of friend but it just showed me that the friend was superficial all along. Currently 5 months in and she’s just now starting to sleep at night …for the most part, I don’t have a routine w her other than bath and lights off at 9-10 to start to settle down. I play some calming music at 9 but at 10 I try to be silent and just let her play either toys and roll around till she tires herself out…Even with that she goes to sleep 11-12