Partner upset I have to get my IUD checked out by a male doctor, the same doctor who delivered 3 of our kids and been my doc since 18. He said it’s bullshit and I need to find a woman doctor

Who is he to tell you what doctor you can and cannot see? Ask him why it’s a problem all of a sudden?

If this dr is who you’ve always seen and you’re comfortable with them, why does it matter? Don’t change drs unless you have to. That’s some weird controlling bs.

Who the hell voted that he’s valid ? 🤦🏻‍♀️ Your partner is f***ed for being upset about this.

Don't let a man tell you what you can and cannot do

This would give me such an ick

Not valid at all, if you had some random with his hands all up in your junk for sure but this is such a invalid point if he's a trained professional, maybe try and find one your both comfortable with so you don't have to do this but your are not the a$$hole here! I only say this so you don't have to deal with his complaints again, I don't think this is something you should do but if he's kicking up a fuss and you wanna be with him a compromise might be needed if he keeps harping on about it, tbh my partner didn't like the idea of a obgyn who's a male but got over it when I pointed out he's a trained professional and sees like 20 vagInas a day!