Is it just me?
So I joined this to make friends find connections, but I feel like I connected with some people had some conversations and then it just dies out fades out. I feel like and I might be the only one here, but I feel like some people are just on here just to know about other moms and then that’s it, or read posts of Mom‘s going through things and that’s just not why I did this like I moved to a town where I am new here. I don’t know anybody I’m a new mom well, he’s 18 months now but still I’m a new mom. He’s my only son you know and like I do everything and anything for him like 24/7 he is my life so I forgot about who I am and I’m trying to make friends here like I’m trying to create something so when it comes to his birthday parties I have Mom friends that bring kids! My older sister has kids and I go to her birthday parties they’re huge! I’m not jealous but at the same time, I envy that because that’s what I want. I want connections I want friends I want my son to have friends, I feel like maybe some people are just like here for the wrong reasons it sucks! I’m really here to try to make connections and I wish I can get the same effort I’m putting in back. Don’t get me wrong I connected with one girl and it’s been great haven’t set a play date yet.
but I know I’m ranting right now but that’s just how I feel and it’s hurtful the whole reason for this app is to feel better about not feeling like your the only one and there are people out there but I’m trying and it’s just been frustrating I guess
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The same things have been happening to me you aren’t alone at all. If you ever want to talk I am here :)
I know how lonely motherhood can feel. You only have one and he’s still so young! Don’t forget to take care of yourself as well. & All company isn’t good company. Also, We all have things going on that keeps us from socializing the way we used to or would like to.
I feel it’s hard to make contant conversation. Like it’s hard to make friends or if I am reading too much into it.
I feel so similar! With a 16 month old only baby, and we work from home and don’t do day care yet so it’s so hard to meet moms/toddlers. Have been on this app for only a few weeks but I wish it was a better situation somehow. I think I might just make a group/mini event in my area for moms with babies that age so we can meet all at once
Same!!! The thing is what we are really cautious about people too, so that’s probably why. I’m here too!!
I feel the absolute same smh even with some family members ... they show love to who they want to or who they favor more... it really does suck. And im fairly new to Florida with zero family and zero friends ..its depressing as heck.. I hope i do gain some connections on here 🙏🏾 like seriously .. forget the small talk lol if we into the same things come over girl!! Anyway im in pasco county Florida moving to Clearwater next month if anyone is local and interested 🤪 🙂 ❤️ cheer up mama we gotta keep praying it will work oit
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