Anyone else angry 24/7?🤣

Gosh I am so angry and irritated all the time. Sometimes I have no reason to be but I feel like I can’t help it especially with my partner. He is so gentle, loving and patient but any little thing he does sets me off. I feel terrible! Anyone going through this?

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*me looking at your page to see if you’re pregnant when asking this*
Normally? No. While pregnant? YES.😂😅

Im am exactly the same im snappy and have no patience. Its at home with my boyfriend with extended family and most of all in work! I hope this calms down once ive had the baby. My poor boyfriend cant do anything right luckily hes very laid back and understands its a temporary thing

Hi Liyah!
I went through this - in the first two months postpartum, I feel better now but still have my rage periods - they just don’t take over my own self anymore, so hang in there!
I used to just cry it out and then when calm I spoke with my husband about this and just had an open and honest conversation about it. Even though he knew postpartum can be a difficult time, it was talking that helped most for him not to feel rejected or discouraged to even approach me.
Feel free to DM - you can vent to me at anytime 🫶🏼

Okay so I been questioning if I’m pregnant again cause my body being weird.. after reading this I’m like “mmm shit” 😂

not necessarily angry but irritated with ease and it takes awhile to let it pass lol my supervisor texted me on a monday morning to remind me of an appointment and i was sooooo annoyed cause ma’am when have i ever missed an appointment -_- & it’s too early to be talking to me lol

and my partner lol i have to give myself plenty of space because the smallest stuff has been making me irritated and then i go on a spiral of thoughts if i even want to be with him over the shower curtain being left open 🤣🤣🤣🤣

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Is there something wrong with me?

My partner is great, he's emotionally mature, understanding, provides as much as he can and he's quite sweet and sentimental. We definitely have a "golden retriever/black cat" dynamic because I am quite blunt, sassy, direct and nonchalant. We've been together for a year and met when I was pregnant (my son's sperm donor has not been in the picture since I ended it at 10 weeks pregnant). I never really expected a relationship to happen when we met but it did and he's got an amazing relationship with my son and sees him as his own. I've struggled with PPD and PPA severely since having my son and he's been there trying his best to help me get through it - like everyone says to me that he's a great man and to keep him etc and I agree, I love him a lot and can't actually see my future without him.

The issue is my actions are not mirroring how I feel in my opinion. I feel like get frustrated with him so easily. We don't live together and because of his work schedule sometimes he's around so much and sometimes I just don't see him. He always says he's going to try to be around more and I think I just keep getting disappointed by him. And he really tries to help when he's here by washing dishes and bottles and cleaning up but a lot of the times the bottles still have dried milk left at the bottom when I go to use them and stuff and it's so frustrating because I keep having to repeat myself - it seems like the time we spend together is me complaining about him offering to do things and then doing it half assed and I feel really bad.

Sometimes when he calls I just don't want to talk because I'm always tired looking after the bubba or he calls me late at night or when I'm trying to sleep and I just find it annoying - I try to be understanding about his work schedule but sometimes I find myself getting annoyed by it and that fact that he doesn't know how to say no to his boss and ends up working ridiculous hours.

We also have little clashes about superficial things like grooming and the clothes that he wears and sometimes hygiene - just stuff like wearing work clothes outside of work and just generally looking presentable when we go to see family or something (but I was raised by a mum who wore heels to the supermarket so that's probably just me 😂) but sometimes I find myself wondering what it would be like to be with someone else who understands these values that I have and I feel bad. I just feel like I love him but just not as much as he loves me ? Maybe I just don't appreciate him enough? Or is it also to do with postpartum hormones ?

Sorry for the rant 😂

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