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My bf doesn’t help w the baby anymore now that he works and I’m staying home. I was working night shift after having my baby and he would stay home but I still took care of her and most everything around the house. Now I’m home and I take care of the baby and the house alone.. we have completely different work mentality’s as well and he hates working (like everyone) but will constantly lose jobs and I think it’s on purpose but I can’t trust him to watch the baby bc he has anger issues. Idk what to do i don’t qualify for any help for child care or cash assistance. And since i started staying home we r now 2 months behind bills.

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I’m so sorry you’re going through this . Some men are extremely immature and selfish and sometimes we don’t see that side until it’s too late! Don’t leave the baby with him trust your instincts, let him work
If you need help with your baby and things around the house do you have family, friends that could help ?
2 months behind is bad ! You have a child that’s crazy that he seems like he doesn’t care . Sounds like he needs a wake up call

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