Am I the only one?

Anyone else cut off their families since giving birth? Since I gave birth to my beautiful daughter, I realise they don’t refer to her as her name. Only baby or it!

They aren’t supportive of my breastfeeding journey (when you going to give her a bottle) rather than celebrating I’ve done 7 months of pure breast!

My daughter is advanced and full of personality but none of them know it nor cared when I used to give weekly updates. Just come for their photo opp and leave. Tell me what I need to do rather than appreciate what I have done etc…

Just sad as I thought my siblings would love my daughter as much as their friends’ but because I’m not bringing her up their way - this is my “punishment,”

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Firstly, I just want to tell you that I think you have done amazing.to have exclusively breastfed for 7 months. Breastfeeding is not easy! I am so sorry that you are not surroundes by support. It sounds very toxic and you have done the right thing to cut them off! Sounds like your daughter and you are better off without them x

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You’re doing great! I’m sorry your family is being like that. I personally would have a conversation with all of them and tell them if this doesn’t change then I’m going no contact. It’s also SO DISRESPECTFUL that they don’t call baby girl by her name. Again I am so so sorry you’re dealing with this

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Little one born early July. Now officially a boy mum of 2 beautiful boys!

We didn’t find out either pregnancy and we agreed before the second was born that this was last pregnancy

A) my health was so bad and ended up admitted and very high risk with this pregnancy so another would likely be worse - if not potentially not successful as a full term.

B) Financially and the spilt in our time and emotions - we couldn’t do another baby

We discussed at length and other half even checked if I was sure once baby boy was born. Which I am!

However, I need to rant and find a way to process that I’ll never have a little girl now. My own mini me and share those girlhood/woman experiences with.

I love my boys and both are a blessing considering we’d thought we’d never ever have children with 5 yrs of trying and being told no.

But how are we processing this if anyone has similar!

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9-10 days DPO

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The wait it’s so anxious !!!

Anyone else has a negative lead to positive?

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I’m around 10dpo and have just tested

My period isn’t due for another 5-6 days though. Anybody see a vvvv fl?? I go away tomorrow on a hen do…chat gpt for once actually says they think they see something 🤣

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Am I the only one?

Anyone else cut off their families since giving birth? Since I gave birth to my beautiful daughter, I realise they don’t refer to her as her name. Only baby or it!

They aren’t supportive of my breastfeeding journey (when you going to give her a bottle) rather than celebrating I’ve done 7 months of pure breast!

My daughter is advanced and full of personality but none of them know it nor cared when I used to give weekly updates. Just come for their photo opp and leave. Tell me what I need to do rather than appreciate what I have done etc…

Just sad as I thought my siblings would love my daughter as much as their friends’ but because I’m not bringing her up their way - this is my “punishment,”

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