Feeling sad/mum guilt/math aint math-ing

Baby (6 months old) will be starting nursery soon, because I will be going back to work. I can't afford not to.

My elder two are at school.

I don't understand how I work 36 hours, commute 30mins, be a career woman, a mum - cook clean nurture, and wife! I forgot me - go gym, have a life, see friends (not that any of the me stuff actually exists!)

How are y'all doing it? What tips help you get through...

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in our community

New here 😇

Hi loves!

I wanted to just say hello - I don’t have a lot of selfies (a girl is self conscious) but I am new-ish to TN and I have 0 friends.

I don’t have Snapchat but I do have an instagram!

Mostly I would just love some conversation and someone to spend time with!

TYIA 🥰

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Sexless relationship... I'm stuck! Help?

Fiance

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How do you learn to love being alone whilst having a child?

Being dead serious the loneliness I felt before becoming a mom feels nothing compared to now.
I come from a very small unhelpful family and I don't really have that many close friends..I've tried making more mom friends but it's not been easy.

There is a peace to being alone for sure..
But how do I learn to embrace it/ live with it?

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Sex

Anybody still having sex during these late stages of pregnancy?

I could if I initiated but just makes me sad he just doesn’t have the urge to.

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Looking for bestie 🤍

Feel like its been since highschool I’ve had a best friend, not easy to find one as a adult especially a mom! Im always available to chat, FaceTime, hangout. Im a mom to 2 boys a 3 yr old and a baby.
From southern Ontario canada.

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Mid wife VS ObGyn

Hi ladies.. I’m trying to decide if I should use a midwife or an obgyn. How did you make that decision? Who did you find most helpful/useful for you in your journey? Any regrets with your choice?

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