Partner making me jump

My partner has a habit of making me jump, really thinks it's funny, this was just an annoyance pre-pregnancy and something was even a bit of a game between us (I'd try and do the same to him) but since becoming pregnant, it has a negative effect on my body and has actually caused cramping etc..

I made it clear he wasn't allowed to do it anymore and for months he's stuck to his promise. But last night he snuck up while I was sewing and opened a can of coke right behind me and scared the bejeezus out of me, I was immediately upset and left the room and went to lie down to try and calm my body but was feeling cramping for around 5 minutes.
Since then (around 6pm) we've not spoken to each other beyond me saying I was going to bed.

He's behaving as if he's angry with me and I can't even fathom how this is me being unreasonable.. I'm not even sure how to deal with this as I think he needs to apologise to me.

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It's on him not you. Tell him it's pissing you off now and say please stop doing it as Ur causing me and the baby stress

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