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Has anyone got the huckleberry premium and if so have you found it helps and how? I downloaded it when my son was a week old so no longer have the option for the free trial to be able to test it myself! 🩵

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All premium does is help predict when naps should be based on your babies age.
I had premium for a while and found I just knew when naps would be anyway.
The free version is good enough for us

I think at around 12 weeks it gave me premium free for 3 days and I didn’t find it wasn’t much different.
I mainly use it to time when his last nap & bottle were so I know when he needs his next. For that I don’t need premium

I use premium and i find it really useful c

Honestly, its a blessing and a curse. Its helpful to have to track naps and night time sleep and get an idea of wake windows and when to get baby down for sleep. The downside is you get hooked and end uo relying on it to help you figure out when to out baby to sleep instead of just following their cues and your own motherly instinct. Babies are not robots so it wont work everytime and they will have regressions that will throw you off routine. Also in the grand scheme of things...how important is it to know exactly how long they have slept in a day...what will that info do for you? X

Here's 30days premium for free!

I have found it does really help, particularly when I've wanted to explore bring bedtimes forward and understanding my little girls patterns.

https://explore.huckleberrycare.com/30-day-premium-guest-pass/

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