Just looking for brutally honest advice

I want to adopt and foster but I want advice from birth mothers and adoptees if they're in this group.

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in our community

How long did it take you to get pregnant first time

Hi ladies I’m 34 my husband 38 and trying for our first
How long did it take you before you conceived
I know the general rule is up to a year but I’m wondering what the average is

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11dpo

11dpo, evaporation line or early faint positive?
Cheap tests from Amazon so don’t have much hope!

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Assuming a miscarriage

Hey all i'm 5+1. I've been bleeding heavy and loss of symptoms.
How long does it take for tests to turn negative? EPU won't scan me for another 12 days

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Positive tests

Got my first positive yesterday on a digital Clearblue but all other tests are faint.

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In my first pregnancy my PAPP-A was 2.25 but this time round it’s 0.896. I know it’s not classed as low, but I can’t help but worry over how different it is compared to my first.

My Down’s syndrome test also came back very different this time round at 1 in 660 when in my first pregnancy it was 1 in 10000.

There’s only been 2 years between the pregnancies, so I’m not sure age could have caused such a huge change, could it?

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Another chemical

I’m so embarrassed telling my husband about the pregnancy, I told him once I got a darker line and positive digital but this one still ended in a mc. Just had one in July as well. I hate that I brung it up just to end this way. I don’t even know how to feel rn.

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