Does your partner call you boring if you refuse to have unprotected sex?
We've been together 15 years, I'm 33 and he's 38. We have 2 children together and don't want any more, he makes it clear if I fall pregnant again then I will have to have a termination.
But anytime he wants unprotected sex he expects me to just be fine with it because he doesn't want to wear a condom then when I say no he always rolls his eyes and says "god sake you're so boring" or tells me I'm the most boring person. Like I'm 33 I don't want unprotected sex, but to call me boring is so rude and I tell him it hurts my feelings but he shrugs it off or laughs and goes "oh shut up, it's clearly a joke"
I think calling someone boring in an intimate part of life isn't a joke, especially when we do have sex and do stuff he says how filthy I am and how unbelievable it is, he just doesn't like me saying no to unprotected sex.
I feel like it's a bit weird to act/respond that way as a nearly 40 year old but anytime I try and mention it he will shut me down as I mentioned. I've asked him to stop, he doesn't.
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What a jerk. You are actually being responsible. Tell him he can take the male pill, condom or not having sex. I thought you were describing a young teenager...
I think he needs to grow up and you need to tell him to go get snipped if that's the case cause he can't tell you what to do with your body. Also what makes you less boring to him? The excitement of going threw mental& physical pain of if and when that happens?
Tell him to get a vasectomy if he wants to be an ass about this
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