Idk what to do?!?

I honestly feel so alone. My partner makes me feel like he despises me. He’s always being negative when it comes to me and him. He’s always telling me that I don’t love him, always twist my words , gets overly angry for some nonsense like who drank the last soda . I’m starting to become cold with him and to him that’s a problem . He even got upset at me when I expressed how he always expects sexual favors and how they becoming to feel like another chore. We have our moments where things are good but lately it’s been like he hates to come home to me . He doesn’t like to kiss me anymore. Anytime I ask for a kiss he gives me a petty one or just ask why??!?! We just reached 5 years… I’ve asked if he’s falling out of love with me , he said no and I told him to be really honest .. he took a big pause and I said I didn’t wanna finish the conversation due to going out for a family day with our daughter . Idk if I need advice or I’m here to vent but all I wanna do is shut down but ik I can’t.

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I could use advice and help!! Unfortunately my husband cheated on me for months following my postpartum(online chat rooms and money for videos) with one specific person. I’m devastated and I don’t know what to do or feel. I feel disgusting. He’s an amazing father and usually an husband so I don’t know what went wrong. I need to hear some positive advice! Please!

I find myself getting quite agressive with my children

Please be kind as I am struggling and looking for help because I hate it!
I have two young children and I don't know what's wrong with me but whenever I am going through a lot, stressed and most especially frustrated/angry it's like something takes control over me and I become very agressive with my little ones without wanting to. I shout, I grab their hand quite hard and I'm just not very gentle.
I can see how much it affects them and always apologise after and give them a hug while I explain why I did what I did. That I was frustrated, but I shouldn't have reacted that way. I haven't been kind/gentle with them.
It's just me on my own and I do find it really hard. I can't afford a sitter and have no family near me or friends. What can I actually do? Because if I carry on like this I would rather give them up. As heart breaking as it is, I often think they'd be better off with another family who doesn't have such a short fuse

would you still feed your 1yo this?

I wanted to make marry me chicken so I bought sun-dried tomatoes without checking the label first… Guidelines say it’s OK but I don’t know if I trust the guidelines completely

Who's in the wrong here?

Just curious what others opinions are on this.
Mom takes her 2 boys to pool. Theyre
4 and 5 old enough to change themselves.
The 4 year old just turned 4 so hes still potty training.
When 4 year old is changing after swimming he poops on floor in men's restroom.
Mom notices it picks it up and leaves does not stay longer than 10 secondsand made sure no one else was in there.
Another Mom sees it happen and says shes gonna call police on Mom who picked up poop.

Can't put baby down without him screaming the house down

Can't cook, go to the loo, do anything for my 4 year old that doesn't require more than one hand. I feel awful for complaining because he's everything i ever wanted and such an easy baby and this newborn stage is so fleeting but I'm really struggling holding him all day and all night

Anyone else feel guilting asking grandparents for help?

Here is my story. I am divorced and have divorced parents. I have two special needs children that I am a single parent to. It is rare that I get a break. One of my parents lives states away and isn’t able to help because of work and my other parent only lives locally 5 months out of the year, she made the decision to move with her husband after I had my kids. My mom travels a lot and has made it clear she isn’t a full time childcare option. I often piece babysitters together to make it through. I have the opportunity to go to the beach and stay for free with a friend the end of the month for a weekend. I was hesitant to ask if she could keep the kids for the whole weekend and asked if she could do it for one day and night - Saturday day and night until I get home Sunday. I have a babysitter that is able to do Friday and Friday night. I asked and her response was “ok”. Not that she would be happy to spend the time with the kids just simply “ok”. She watches them overnight maybe twice a year or three times. Anyone else so hesitant to ask their parents for help? Would love to know your thoughts.