Hey lovelies,
My partner wants to find the gender out but I don't want to. He won't be at the scan due to work. Would you find the gender out to please him or stick to your guns and not find out.
I want the surprise but I also don't want other people knowing even if I did find out... oh and he can't keep a secret (especially from his mum and she has a right big gob on her so everyone would know).
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My husband wants to know, I kinda of didnt. But we are going to get it written down and have a little reval party. So we will find out together with my Stepdaughters and rest of our family.

Maybe I’m mean but if he isn’t at the scan… how will he find out! If you don’t want to know, why would you ask!

With my first my husband knew and I didn’t. He didn’t tell anyone else and was the one to introduce me to our daughter when she was born! It was so special. I am considering doing the same with our second.
It’s unusual but it can be done!!