2nd pregnancy no one cares
Currently 12 weeks with our second and my mood is so low. Lots to process being a high risk pregnancy, my 12 week scan was proven tricky with my c section scar limiting viewing (not helped by a wriggly baby) and needing an internal scan instead (still have to go for a rescan), feeling guilty for my 1st born we are having another and questioning if we are doing the right thing. I decided to tell my sisters yesterday and the reaction wasnât what Iâd hoped for. Both think we are totally crazy and didnât seem too eager. I then told a co worker who I can trust and again, similar reaction. Itâs like no one cares at all when you get pregnant again and basically judge you for your decision. These reactions have only made me feel worse and I now donât want to tell anyone we are having another. I donât remember feeling this low in my 1st pregnancy but Iâm not even feeling excited or happy that Iâm pregnant again âčïž