Grief/bereavement during pregnancy

Hi, not sure I really have any advice tbh. But, you’re not alone.

I feel you 100%. I lost my mum 2 years ago and there are so many moments that I struggle with.

This sounds awful but I’m so envious that my partner gets to share it with his mum and see her excitement.

My mum would have been ecstatic and it has really brought up some feelings that has been difficult to navigate. X

I lost my mum last year then found out I was pregnant with my first daughter , losing your mum is the worst thing in the world , but not having the mum support whilst pregnant is so horrible xx I feel your pain

My mum was diagnosed with terminal cancer when I was 16. I had two sons when I was 19 and 23 and going through that knowing how poorly my mum was, was horrible. She died when I was 25. I'm 42 now and expecting my third son. It's the first pregnancy where I haven't had my mum and I do miss her terrible at this time, even though she has been gone for 17 years.
I don't really have any advice other than to say that you are not the only one in this situation and it is really difficult. Sounds like your little one has come at the right time and you can focus on them now. Doesn't take away the loss but is a nice distraction. I'm sure your mum would be proud and not want you to feel sad and to enjoy the pregnancy. I had bereavement counselling and it really helped me, especially with all the hormones which don't help. Maybe you could speak to the GP/ midwife as it may help. Wishing you all the best xx