Sleep schedule

Hey mamas so my baby is 5 months old and recently for the past idk maybe 3-4 days he’s been waking up for the day at 4 freaking AM 😭😭 he doesn’t have a set schedule per se but he’ll go down for bed around 9 pm wake up to eat if his sisters still up he gets fomo so he won’t go down till she’s down 😭😭 usually around 11pm (don’t judge we’re night owls and wake up late 😅😂) anywho I’m EXHAUSTED from this baby waking up at 4 AM every single day. He’s refusing naps during the day until he’s fully exhausted basically. He lets me do close to nothing all day because all he wants to do is be held. Literally cries and screams bloody murder until he is held 😭😭 my first was nothing like this. She would go to sleep whenever and still wake up at noon as long as I was in bed with her.

Any moms have any tips? Or are any of yall going through something similar ? How do I fix this 😭😭 I need sleep

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A question for 2nd time mummies and beyond

My social circle is all 1st time mummies with children ranging up to two and we all put a lot of focus on naps. I feel very restricted because of to the expectations I’ve now built up. I was more chill on the nap front a couple of months ago but since she dropped to two naps I’m all “nap this. Nap that” and tbh it’s not my personality at all so missing a bit of myself. I want to do what’s good for her though.

Anyway, how do you do it? It can’t be simple? School runs or clashing naps or bedtime with a toddler. Or have you just let go and say “hey, they’re happy and clearly gets their sleep somewhere”

What would you say to me? - go with it and get out and enjoy life nap worry free? or would you say be grateful for the opportunity to focus on just her and get her naps in? Or a mix of the lot? Do your expectations of yourself and reality add up?

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Last night I snapped at my 16 month old daughter she was not settling or going to sleep I was exhausted and had work the next morning she eventually fell asleep at 12am she was fighting her sleep for ages. I just got so irritated and snappy I felt like I just had to put her down and leave the room cos of how mad I was getting. Is this normal.

As soon as she fell asleep I cried myself to sleep and I felt so awful for how I had reacted.
:( I still feel it this morning

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Also what are people using while they are out and about to stop having embarrassing accident while in public I got some absorbent pads that stick to my bra/ clothes but obviously my breast move around as I go about my day and some times they sift from were the pad is and I get leeks. The other day me and my partner were briefly socialising with friends and I started leaking and used my drink to block the view of my leaky breast, I was mortified.

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