Guilty of buying yourself something

I feel guilty buying myself this one gift.
I feel like I should spend on my kid
which I do and I don’t do anything for myself.

It is a lil pricey but I’ve never done that before and I know it wouldn’t break us because we’ve been being smart with spending.

The bright side is , it is a girly purchase and I do have a daughter. Maybe she can use it one day lol 😆

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Baby asprin

Hi all, just found out im nearly 5 weeks pregnant after 2 longgggg years trying! I did start taking 75mg of asprin (what people call baby asprin) around 5-6 weeks ago, just on a whim as lots of people said it helped them conceive! I’ve never had a positive test so overrrr the moon!
Should I stop taking it now? I don’t see a midwife until like the end of September and don’t want to risk anything!
Thanks in advance!

Taking sex out of the relationship

My husband has always been very routine in his approach to our sex life. It's always on his terms and happens once a week. Not through lack of me trying, but after years of rejection, I've just given up initiating.
Im a very physical touch person, its what makes me feel close and really its the difference of being just good friends.
Anyway! Ive just had my birthday and our wedding anniversary and there wasnt any form of physical touch whatsoever. Am I wrong for being upset by this?
Im considering just saying we will temporarily take sex out of the relationship? It just makes me feel a bit crappy.

Trying to figure out a birthday gift for my husband

A) find a way to take a picture of all three kids together and get it printed on one item.

B) use existing pictures of the kids individually print one on a mug, one on a mouse pad, and one on a puzzle.

C) get him something else that's unrelated to the kids

Returning to work

Is anyone else absolutely terrified about going back to work? I’m supposed to be going back the start of October but I don’t know whether to delay it I’m absolutely terrified & have such bad anxiety about returning to work.
I’m okay with my little one going to nursery and with parents while I’m in work but just going back to work after 9 months off is terrifying

Which option would you go for?

Me and my partner are saving up to buy a house.

I'm 25 years old and have a 5 month old.
We currently live in my parent’s house and are more than half way from saving up the deposit to buy a decent house.

So the options are either:

- Buying a house which costs considerably less and less mortgage payments a month and can move out faster (within 5 months)
But the disadvantage is that it's not our dream location in terms of community and schools, so will probably move out in the future to a second home.

- Or should we wait and save more money and buy the dream home instead meaning we stay in my parent's house longer (8-12 months realistically)

Chances of getting pregnant, having sex while on period!?

Has anyone got pregnant after having unprotected sex on your period?? My husband and I had a few shots and an edible last night and made bad decisions, he came inside me! I was on day 2 of my period so I’m hoping I don’t get pregnant but what are the chances???