My husband has always been very routine in his approach to our sex life. It's always on his terms and happens once a week. Not through lack of me trying, but after years of rejection, I've just given up initiating.
Im a very physical touch person, its what makes me feel close and really its the difference of being just good friends.
Anyway! Ive just had my birthday and our wedding anniversary and there wasnt any form of physical touch whatsoever. Am I wrong for being upset by this?
Im considering just saying we will temporarily take sex out of the relationship? It just makes me feel a bit crappy.
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I think what you feel is valid. What does he say when you talk to him about wanting physical contact for intimacy? Like what is his reasoning for it to be always on his terms?

Huh ? What not even a hug or kiss ?!

If my man rejected me once, I would get hurt. As for no form of physical touch, are you like all dressed up? Did you guys have like a quality time together on your birthday/ anniversary?
Also, does your man not crave sex? Does he self pleasure or something?

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