Why is it so hard to keep new friends now a days?

Ok so so far every time I’ve made a friend on here it has only lasted for maybe a month or two then I get ghosted and I really don’t understand why. Yes I multiple text but sometimes I can’t help it if I feel like I’ve said something wrong and they don’t tell me or they just start ignoring me. Can anyone give me advice please 🙏🏻?

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That’s a good question.
Maybe people are finding what they were looking for or they’ve decided the app is more trouble than it’s worth. 🤷🏽‍♀️

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No need to be sorry. I AM SORRY that you are going through this. Socializing is hard enough, but socializing while being a mother is especially difficult.

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Sure. That would be great. 😊

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I am going through the same thing.. constantly and I’m honestly not sure why😞

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I have seen the same thing! Exchanged numbers with a couple girls then nothing 🤷‍♀️ I dont understand it either. Sorry gf! Some people are just jerks

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