Sex question!

I’m almost 2 weeks postpartum 😂my sex drive is back and it’s driving me mad. Had my little boy almost 2 weeks ago but had to have stitches! How long do I have to wait before we have sex?! It’s driving me crazy!

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At LEAST 6 weeks, and not just because of stitches! You still have a massive wound in your uterus as well and that needs to be given time to heal without introducing additional outside pathogens.

If you have stiches is wait 8weeks.

I’d say go for it listen your body do what makes you happy

Is at least 6 weeks! You are risking a huge infection in your uterus otherwise, you have literally a wound the size of a large plate inside of you and introducing anything inside the vagina is a risk of infection that can be even fatal. Don’t risk it just wait.

I’d wait the 6 weeks recommended because it might hurt but I could only wait 4 with my hormones 😂just becareful, You can definitely get pregnant again !!!

There’s lot of ways to have sex that doesn’t have to involve the v***

Y'all vibrators exist for a reason- there is a mandatory wait period so your body can help properly without risking serious infection

Tbh I did it at 3weeks bc my sex drive… come to find out it was me ovulating bc by 4 1/2 weeks, I started my period again. I quit bleeding by week 2 so i knew it was my period. Nothing was affected (I did have stitches), I had no infections, etc. I understand why not to do so, but also don’t let anyone shame you for what you do with your body. Listen to your body, and do as you please. We are all told 6weeks before intercourse. It’s not law, it’s a suggestion. Just understand the risk that comes with it if you might. Also make sure your partner is clean if you decide to do so

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