Sex
I am four months pp. we have had sex once.
My husband wasn’t into having sex whilst I was pregnant (ok fine) but he never comes onto me. Never tells me he wants it.
It’s like he’s just not that into me.
He works a lot and and we can sometimes be “passing ships” and I’m often asleep before him but he doesn’t even say “shall we” or never implies he ever wants it.
I don’t want to keep bringing it up but why should it always be me…
He told me quite early on pp I need to lose weight so now I can’t help but think he just doesn’t fancy me as I haven’t lost weight.
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I don’t think it’s about your weight at all darling. Sounds like he may be working a lot busy getting it from someone else. He’s using your weight as an excuse to not sleep with you because he’s already maxed out elsewhere sexually and instead is putting the blame on you for why he doesn’t want to. That’s emotional abuse.
Yes I don’t think… in fact I know, he’s getting it from elsewhere!!!
I think, Laura, you’re right, I’ve just sit and overthink in the middle of the night and we are just at each others throats a bit (tired / stressed)
I will muster the strength to talk to him! X
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