Help getting out of the Rutt!

My baby is now 10 months old my village (friends) disappeared when she was weeks old and I've been alone since. There are no baby groups where I live so my baby hasnt been around other babies yet. Im desperate to get her out meeting other babies and myself getting out and getting myself out of the rutt ive got myself in of staying home or just popping to the shop. I am in the sandwich kent area and was wondering if anyone would like to perhaps meet up for coffee or park meets. I don't drive but can use public transport where possible.

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Sex

I am four months pp. we have had sex once.
My husband wasn’t into having sex whilst I was pregnant (ok fine) but he never comes onto me. Never tells me he wants it.
It’s like he’s just not that into me.

He works a lot and and we can sometimes be “passing ships” and I’m often asleep before him but he doesn’t even say “shall we” or never implies he ever wants it.
I don’t want to keep bringing it up but why should it always be me…

He told me quite early on pp I need to lose weight so now I can’t help but think he just doesn’t fancy me as I haven’t lost weight.

Making friends, staying connected

Why is it so hard making friends, especially when you get older. You would think it would be easier the older you get but its not. Older ppl can be so mean. Like who peed in your cereal. It doesn't help that im a loner in real life. I take my kids out try to conversat with the other mothers but I always leave feeling like I've over shared my life or I didnt say enough.

I did sign up for this app expecting to make a connect at least on here I haven't. A bunch of dms but it never really goes any where.

Just for fun… Push presents count if I buy them myself? Or it should be husband buying them?

Money is shared so is the same either if buy it or him, it’s paid from the same account.

Does it have to be something expensive or any sweet small detail counts as well?

Friends!

Hiya! Our boy Otis was born 2nd July and I would love to have some friends to talk to, maybe meet up if we are local 🩵
Feel free to reach out and can add each other on socials! Always need mom friends as I only have 1 who I don’t see very often 🩷xx

Do you guys check your partners monthly payslips/income?

If he had a £200 - £400 deduction on his payslip every month, would you notice it?

That £200-£400 is being forcibly removed from his wages like tax

Would you notice it?

The money is going to a woman who has a child with him which he abandoned and never met.
He was only using the woman for sex until she got pregnant and he disappeared.

In the UK, Child Maintenance Payments give the man an opportunity to respond to their phone calls and letters.

If that is ignored, they will forcibly remove take it from the man’s wages.

😂😂😂

Need some advice

So I got the implant a couple months ago and I’ve been struggling with my mental health my non existent want for sex with my boyfriend and also struggling with the on and off period

Does anyone have some advice for me