Why is this so hard?

Why is it so hard to try and make friends? It seems like any time I try to talk to someone my anxiety gets the best of me or people judge and look at me like im crazy. :( I just hate how hard it is to make friends.

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I am four months pp. we have had sex once.
My husband wasn’t into having sex whilst I was pregnant (ok fine) but he never comes onto me. Never tells me he wants it.
It’s like he’s just not that into me.

He works a lot and and we can sometimes be “passing ships” and I’m often asleep before him but he doesn’t even say “shall we” or never implies he ever wants it.
I don’t want to keep bringing it up but why should it always be me…

He told me quite early on pp I need to lose weight so now I can’t help but think he just doesn’t fancy me as I haven’t lost weight.

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Why is it so hard making friends, especially when you get older. You would think it would be easier the older you get but its not. Older ppl can be so mean. Like who peed in your cereal. It doesn't help that im a loner in real life. I take my kids out try to conversat with the other mothers but I always leave feeling like I've over shared my life or I didnt say enough.

I did sign up for this app expecting to make a connect at least on here I haven't. A bunch of dms but it never really goes any where.

Do you guys check your partners monthly payslips/income?

If he had a £200 - £400 deduction on his payslip every month, would you notice it?

That £200-£400 is being forcibly removed from his wages like tax

Would you notice it?

The money is going to a woman who has a child with him which he abandoned and never met.
He was only using the woman for sex until she got pregnant and he disappeared.

In the UK, Child Maintenance Payments give the man an opportunity to respond to their phone calls and letters.

If that is ignored, they will forcibly remove take it from the man’s wages.

😂😂😂

Why is this so hard?

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Do you guys check your partners monthly payslips/income?

Just for fun… Push presents count if I buy them myself? Or it should be husband buying them?

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Need some advice