Finally discussed divorce with my husband

I had my baby on July 17th and today I finally brought up that I want a divorce. 3 yrs ago he asked for a divorce and I said no. And we have been struggling since. My baby just turned 1 month and I find myself having to deal with my husband neglect and dismissal while recovering for c section. On top of that , he s constantly talking to a female coworker on the phone via text messages. During his paternity leave, we don't talk most of the time. He just does his own thing and leave me alone and sad. I would love to connect with a mom who's going through divorce. Thanks for listening

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Need me a bestie!

Message me! Miss having girl talk! And talking about anything and everything 💙

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Do you guys check your partners monthly payslips/income?

If he had a £200 - £400 deduction on his payslip every month, would you notice it?

That £200-£400 is being forcibly removed from his wages like tax

Would you notice it?

The money is going to a woman who has a child with him which he abandoned and never met.
He was only using the woman for sex until she got pregnant and he disappeared.

In the UK, Child Maintenance Payments give the man an opportunity to respond to their phone calls and letters.

If that is ignored, they will forcibly remove take it from the man’s wages.

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Wanting a genuine connection/flirting 💜. Anybody wanna chat??

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Why is this so hard?

Why is it so hard to try and make friends? It seems like any time I try to talk to someone my anxiety gets the best of me or people judge and look at me like im crazy. :( I just hate how hard it is to make friends.

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Finances

Hi mamas, guess a vent and advice
My baby daddy and I arent together. Im due any day and he hasnt contributed to all the things ive needed to get for baby. Sent him a list of baby things we need in June already and he ke keeps saying he will send money next month. This month he said he doesnt have money he has alot going on but he hosted a party.

I can already tell getting monthly contribution will be an issue even though he said he would help. Mind you hes a data analyst at google and rents a few rooms at his house. I dont know what to do, i dont baby to have his surname cause i can see hes going to make things difficult, will this affect maintanance? Also at what stage do i take him to maintance office?

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