Bathrooms

How do I explain to my BD that he can't take our 4 year old daughter into the men's room because that is unsafe?!

in our community

Is he trying to stop me from going out /is this normal

So I go out probably once or r twice a month not every month. Now at first my partner (boyfriend ) would say he doesn’t want me leaving to go out after 11pm which was crazy because 30+ chances are they usually start late. Then he says he doesn’t want me out past 2 am then he says the door will be locked 5am (usually back by then so that’s ridiculous) it just sounds like he doesn’t want me to go out

Am i being unreasonable?

So, my little girl is almost 16 months old. I split up from her dad when she was around 4 months old. He has been having her overnight at his parents every weekend but i have told him that i would occasionally like to have her on the weekends so i can do enjoyable things with her? He doesnt seem to do much with her apart from going to the local park and staying in the house so i just feel a but bad about her missing out on fun things?
Whenever i do tell him that id like to have her on a certain weekend, he tends to start an argument and threaten me with mediation sessions?
However i feel like allowing my 1 year old to stay away from me every weekend is generous of me? Its only that perhaps once a month id like to have her om a weekend day? He only wants to have her both saturday and sunday as he lives an hour away and thinks its too much driving just to spend one day with her?
Am i being unreasonable for occasionally wanting to have my daughter on a weekend?

Porridge for a 7month old

Can I give this porridge to my 7 month old?? Or do I need to keep giving ‘baby porridge’ ?
Thank you

Husband work travel

Husband needs to travel for work (one night) when the baby is 3.5 weeks old. He is the bread winner but I also feel 3 weeks PP is early?

Resentment 😢

Hi all, I’m 12 weeks pp now and I’ve started to resent my partner quite a bit and I feel awful for it.. he does what he can to help around the house, he’s working so I can have a full year off maternity, he takes the baby and does the evening routine so I get time to myself but I do notice he gets more alone time than I do and I envy him for it. At the same time I love being with my baby too and sometimes I will join bath time before his dad takes him to bed with his bottle (I EBF throughout the night and day apart from this one feed). He obviously gets full nights sleep and I haven’t since I was 20 weeks pregnant so whenever he says he’s tired it infuriates me! He was fantastic when I was pregnant and postpartum when he wasn’t working but it’s almost like he sees me as ‘back’ but I’m still breastfeeding and with the baby all day on my own. I have also just started my first period so not sure if it’s my hormones but everything he says annoys me, I can’t even think about being affectionate or intimate at all 😭 What do I do?

My husband called me a Bitch

For the first time ever. We have been together for almost 3 and a half years.
We have a lot going on, such as baby number two due in November, trying to sell our house and negotiate with the owners of the house we are buying.
With that the conversation started off pretty normal- talking about installing a doggy door and how I thought getting this specific automatic one installed into our wall is better than buying the door that has one already installed (it’s more expensive and not automatic) he disagreed and said he’ll pay the extra money if it means not putting a hole in the wall. fair but I want/need the automatic with new born otw, ( I didn’t say this exactly) I said but the automatic will make it easier for me. He gave no other option and just started saying like. It doesn’t even matter what I say we just always do what you want cause you’re a bitch.
The moment of silence we had before I looked and said what did you just say? He ended up trying to back up what he said but I told him to “shut the fuck up and the conversation was over” (I under stand I did come back “strong” but tbf I do not even give a fuck)

Now I’m in our bed room laying with our toddler while he naps trying to figure out where to go from here.