I’m struggling with the social aspect of this app, I’ll message someone and either get vague responses or we’ll have a good convo going and then the ghosting starts.
My question is, is everyone looking for friends but not wanting to chase friendships? That’s basically my case. I won’t force you to talk to me, I chased after every friend I had looking to hold on to a connection that was one sided. I haven’t had a single friend since I was 18. I’m 23 now and still stick to my guns of not chasing people who don’t want me. I will message back, I just fear I’m not interesting enough to hold a conversation with.
Is there anything I can do that will help me out of this funk of loneliness?
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I know how you feel. I feel like I'm always the one sending messages or initiating contact.

Omg same. I thought I was the only
One