Venting
I’m 36 weeks with a breech baby and having a ECV scheduled next week and I just found out my husband has been emotionally cheating on me since last week it’s not the first time so I’ve already been stressed during the pregnancy he’ll do it again and to find out he did 4 weeks before my due date.
Just had an argument with him About how he feels before he downloaded a dating app and told him if he’s going to continue feeling like this to leave me but he says no we’ll work it out but then the next day he goes and spend money on tinder to pay for a membership because he just wants to have sex with someone.
I’m tired of this situation but I can’t go anywhere else.
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My God. I can't even imagine going through this. I know all the circumstances can make it harder to leave. But please stretch your imagination and think of any way to leave this person so you can have some peace. My blood boils for you, sincerely. You're carrying his child, and this is how little it means to him. EVERYONE goes through a period of low or no sex in late pregnancy and postpartum. Don't let him gaslight you into somehow thinking this is your fault. A true partner with a sense of loyalty goes through it with you, works with you as its happening. He wants to work on it after the fact? After the betrayal? So he gets the best of both worlds and you get disrespect? Not how that works. Anyways, im really sorry. Im sending love and hugs, im only a week behind you. Stay strong for yourself and your baby. You deserve way better than this, please know that.
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