Who do we contact?!

This may be stupid question but im feeling completely lost and frustrated ๐Ÿ˜ค๐Ÿ˜‚

Im currently 6w and had two previous miscarriages. Obviously im very anxious and every little detail/symptom is being over analised a million times because what else do i have to do ๐Ÿ™„

But for example yesterday i believed i had some spotting which sent me into a tiny, slightly over the top meltdown to which i messaged my GP asking to be seen the following day for reassurance ect, to which they messaged saying i should go to A&E to be refered to the EPAC. So i though F-that as last time i waited over 15 hours to be seen as i was sent to the wrong department and they 'couldnt find me' like i was some strange anonymy. So i called EPAC and they said i need a referal from my GP (screams internally). Which i said my GP said they cannot refer me and basically wont do anything to do with pregnancy so what do i do? She said well it isnt an emergency im sure everything will be okay ๐Ÿคญ so my question is who TF do we call/contact or whatever in these scenarios because im at a loss and quietly lossing my marbles. I mean even just bringing me in to talk about my concerns would of been better then told 'im sure itll be okay'. Right okay then ๐Ÿ‘


Help an emotionally unstable girl out ๐Ÿ˜‚

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Sorry your going the this. Maybe try 111 and see if they can get your GP to do a referral or at least be able to give you some piece of mind x

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I had spotting at the weekend and I called the labour ward at my local hospital and they transferred me to the gynaecology ward who booked me a scan appointment for the Monday. Whoever youโ€™ve referred yourself with for appointments is who you need to call.

Also just fyi my spotting was implantation building as they saw a bruise next to baby, but all was fine. Could absolutely be the same case with you especially if itโ€™s light spotting, but definitely worth getting it checked out!

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111 can refer to EPU during the week as far as I know. Iโ€™m sorry thatโ€™s really rubbish. My hospital accepts self referrals to EPU and told me that I should only go to A&E if itโ€™s a risk to life situation like bleeding through a pad every hour otherwise I should call them but in past pregnancy (at different hospital) Iโ€™ve either gone via A&E or 111.

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My past pregnancy I just went to A&E for reassurance who took my bloods and then referred me to the EPU via A&E who saw me 2 days later for comparison bloods

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This may be stupid question but im feeling completely lost and frustrated ๐Ÿ˜ค๐Ÿ˜‚

Im currently 6w and had two previous miscarriages. Obviously im very anxious and every little detail/symptom is being over analised a million times because what else do i have to do ๐Ÿ™„

But for example yesterday i believed i had some spotting which sent me into a tiny, slightly over the top meltdown to which i messaged my GP asking to be seen the following day for reassurance ect, to which they messaged saying i should go to A&E to be refered to the EPAC. So i though F-that as last time i waited over 15 hours to be seen as i was sent to the wrong department and they 'couldnt find me' like i was some strange anonymy. So i called EPAC and they said i need a referal from my GP (screams internally). Which i said my GP said they cannot refer me and basically wont do anything to do with pregnancy so what do i do? She said well it isnt an emergency im sure everything will be okay ๐Ÿคญ so my question is who TF do we call/contact or whatever in these scenarios because im at a loss and quietly lossing my marbles. I mean even just bringing me in to talk about my concerns would of been better then told 'im sure itll be okay'. Right okay then ๐Ÿ‘


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