Help please

Hi guys, I have a 3 years old daughter and a 1 year old daughter.
My 3 year old is currently going through and screaming and tantrum phase which is insettling for my 1 year old and she get unsettled.

I’ve tried everything I can possibly think of to try and calm her down.

Any advise on this? Really struggling here

Thank you in advance 🥰

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May have said something bad unintentionally

So a few weeks ago I went to see my cousins baby she's now 5 months old I held her once and interacted with her ect then gave her back to her dad they offered me to hold her again

It just came out and I said I'm okay I'm not really a baby person

I know some people love to hold baby's and cuddle but that not really me.

I wish I had t said it now I feel like a knob I just ment that's I was okay not to hold her again and that I would be more interactive once she's a lil older eg sitting up and crawling ect I find smaller babies quiet fragile I was even like this with my own , I didn't mean it wrong , how can I apologize or am I over thinking it

I didn't mean to offend them at all.

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