what would you do
my baby daddy is super insensitive to everyone else’s feelings other than his own.. do you think this will change or will he always be like this?
for context we’ve been together for almost 2 years with no change, i wanted to leave while pregnant because he was just so rude to me anytime i wanted to talk about the baby. he likes “new” things so when i got pregnant he was excited for about 2 weeks and then quit and same when i had our baby.
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Imagine staying with someone so that you can be with a version of them that you've never seen and that currently does not exist. A fairytale
I would consider what you are willing to tolerate and then communicate your expectations/boundaries to him after really giving yourself some time to reflect.
sharing a child is definitely a factor but keep in mind that children often learn to love based on the relationship(s) they see modeled daily.
people can change, but only if they are motivated to themselves.
you deserve to be with someone who cares about your feelings and is willing to grow.
Idk, I would be worried the kid would grow up to act similarly.
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