Feeding
My baby never seems to be satisfied and this is me combi feeding. He is 5 weeks and he is never settled and satisfied. I feel if he was then things would be a lot easier. I’m considering just going onto formula completely as at least then I’ll know how much he is getting. I’ve spoken to infant feeding teams, health visitors like everyone I can speak to about this and I just don’t feel like anything is working. Today I’ve spent the past 12 hours feeding on the hour and this cannot be normal this isn’t cluster feeding. I just need to vent because I feel like I don’t know what I’m doing. I can’t express milk because I don’t get the chance to and when im expressing it’s taking up to an hour just to get about 60ml of milk. I don’t sleep at night because it’s just constant, I can’t put him down. I’m having a mental breakdown and when I try to talk to people they just like to throw advice that I’ve tried multiple times at me. I keep thinking back to when I could sleep at night :(
I’m a solo mom which doesn’t help. I envisioned things being a lot easier than this
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Go to formula! This kind of stress and worry is not worth it. You might feel more relaxed when you know how much he’s getting and it may give you some rest bite too. You must look after you and taking the pressure off bf may really help.
It’s so tough. But there is nothing wrong with going to formula. There is nothing wrong with it and millions of babies are on it and are thriving.
You’re done 5 weeks of bf already which is amazing! Time to look after you a little bit!
Fed is best, that's what my midwife said when I went through something similar with my first baby.
The stress was too much, that I couldn't even express. Once I switched from EBF to combi, I felt more in control as I could see what they were having as a minimum and baby seemed more settled. I can imagine going full formula would also give you this reassurance.
Every baby is different to caveat, but mums have this instinct for a reason.
The only other thing I could possibly think of is, I read if babies have trapped wind, sucking motion helps them soothe? Is it worth offering a pacifier instead of a feed. I'm probs wrong but only a thought!
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